What to Do When a Child Dies
The death of a child or baby is one of the most heartbreaking experiences a family can face. Whether expected or sudden, nothing can truly prepare you for such a loss. While no words can ease the pain, knowing what steps to take can help you feel a little more supported during this incredibly difficult time.
We’re here to gently guide you through the practical arrangements and offer the care and compassion you need every step of the way.
What Happens When a Child Dies?
Whether your child passed away at home, in hospital, or shortly after birth, the process for registering their death follows similar steps to those for an adult. That said, the emotional weight of this time is unlike anything else, and we will always treat you and your child with the utmost care and sensitivity.
If a Baby or Child Dies at Home
If a baby or child passes away at home:
• Contact your GP or emergency services. A doctor will need to certify the death.
• Once this is done, you can begin the process of registering the death and making funeral arrangements.
• You are welcome to contact us at any time — we will offer advice, emotional support, and guidance on what comes next.
The process for registering the death of a child at home is the same as for adults.
If a Baby or Child Dies in Hospital
If your child or baby passes away in hospital, the hospital staff will offer care and guidance during the first few hours. You may be supported by a bereavement midwife or a designated member of staff who will help explain the process of:
• Registering the death or stillbirth
• Returning personal items or clothing
• Discussing funeral options
• Offering counselling or support resources
Some hospitals may offer a simple funeral service for stillborn or newborn babies. These services may be held alongside others who have experienced similar loss.
You are not obliged to accept the hospital’s funeral service — if you prefer a private or personalised funeral, we are here to help you plan something meaningful for your baby or child, at your own pace and in your own way.
Stillbirths and the Law
If your baby is stillborn after 24 weeks of pregnancy, the stillbirth must be formally registered. The hospital will usually help guide you through this process and explain the documents required.
If the stillbirth occurred before 24 weeks, registration is not legally required, but we understand many parents still want to honour their baby’s life. We can help you create a memorial or service that reflects your love and loss.
Arranging a Funeral for a Child
We understand that planning a funeral for a baby or child is an incredibly difficult task. We will support you with:
• Gentle, step-by-step guidance on what to do next
• The option to create a personal and age-appropriate tribute
• Helping with burial or cremation arrangements
• Supporting any religious or cultural practices that are meaningful to your family
We are here to listen, to honour your wishes, and to make sure your child’s memory is reflected in the service you choose.
Support and Practical Advice
Even though the legal and practical steps are much the same as for adults, we know that the emotions, decisions, and grief are very different.
If your hospital does not provide specialist bereavement care, or if you simply need to speak to someone, please reach out to us. We can help with:
• Guidance on registering the death or stillbirth
• Coordinating with the hospital or coroner, if needed
• Offering emotional support and signposting to local bereavement charities or counselling services
• Making arrangements that are right for you, without pressure or expectation
You’re Not Alone
Losing a child is devastating — and navigating what to do when your child dies is something no parent should ever have to face alone. Whether your loss was recent or some time ago, we are here to support you.
Call us on 0808 258 3356 – Our team is available 24/7 to help and guide you.
Useful Links
Death at Home
Death in Care
Death in Hospital
Dying abroad and Repatriation
Sudden or Unexpected Death
Registering a death
Help with bereavement